and, don’t you notice something rubbing against it when you move?

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    3 months ago

    That’s the first couple steps on a long and possibly terrifying road. Sometimes not knowing is more comfortable. You’ve been warned.

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      3 months ago

      Eh, it’s not “terrifying” it’s just a kink thing and it tends to get a lot of unwarranted negativity (imo because of insecure people). It’s definitely not for everyone but, as with nearly all things sexual, it’s never a bad idea to investigate things just to see if you’re into it.

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        3 months ago

        I’m secure about my sexuality and I still don’t like cages - but more because if I’m with a cute submissive guy I really really want to play with his cock y’know, and if he’s not going to let me that’s a bit of a deal breaker